Three Charlies

How my garden grows

With this throw, I certainly stepped out of my color-comfort zone. It was the first big project that I machine-quilted, myself. I must say it makes for a colorful photo. Molly really likes this, but maybe I'll use it for a wall hanging in the lower level.

Stay away from the pit

It was the middle of April when Ed, my mom's husband, fell and was seriously injured ... enough to land him in the hospital and continued inpatient care. I should have started blogging then about my experiences with the medical system, insurance, and just plain growing old. But I didn't.
Now, however, we've turned a new corner. What I have to say is my own observation ... It seems that a crisis can magnify all that is good in a relationship or intensify all its flaws. Divorce at age 86? Can't believe I'm hearing the words come out of one of the partner's mouth.
I'm learning about my own fragile boundaries through this process - about my need to help beyond my emotional ability to do so. When I overstep the line, I see the pit of depression looming.
It's time to pull back. But can I do so?